We know how exciting it is to pick out your wedding dress! It’s one of the most memorable moments leading up to your big day, and it’s easy to feel the urge to rush straight to your appointment. But before you jump into the sea of satin, lace, and tulle, a little preparation can make all the difference. After all, the more prepared you are, the smoother and more enjoyable the process will be. It’ll help you to narrow down what you really want in a wedding dress too!
At Lily’s Boutique, we want to ensure your wedding dress shopping experience is as magical as you’ve dreamed, so here are some key questions you can expect during your appointment and tips on how to prepare.
Where are you getting married?
One of the first things we’ll ask is where you’re having your wedding. You might be wondering what that has to do with finding the perfect dress, but the venue and setting play a really big role in determining what kind of gown will work best.
If you’re planning a beach wedding, for example, you might want a lightweight, flowing dress that won’t feel too heavy in the sun or sand. On the other hand, a grand church ceremony might inspire a more traditional or formal gown! Is your wedding outdoors in the middle of summer? You’ll want something breathable. Indoors during the winter? You may want to consider long sleeves or heavier fabrics. Knowing your venue helps us recommend styles that not only fit your desired aesthetic but also keep you comfortable on your special day.
What’s your overall wedding vision?
Your wedding dress is a huge part of your day, but it’s also just one piece of the bigger picture. To get a sense of what you’re dreaming of, we’ll have a chat with you about the overall theme and vision for your wedding.
Are you going for a romantic, boho vibe with lots of greenery and soft lighting? Or maybe you’re planning something sleek and modern with clean lines and minimal décor. Whatever your vision, we want your dress to complement not only your personal style but the entire event. Whether your wedding is rustic, glam, vintage, or something else entirely, this information helps us guide you towards a gown that will make everything come together beautifully – plus, we just love hearing all about your vision for the big day!
Do you have a colour scheme or florals in mind?
While your dress will most likely be the focal point of your bridal look, it’s helpful to consider how it will pair with your wedding colours and flowers. If you already have a specific palette or florals in mind, let us know!
For example, if your bridesmaids will be wearing soft, pastel shades, you may want to opt for a blush-toned dress instead of traditional white to tie everything together. Or, if you’re planning vibrant, bold flowers, a classic ivory dress might help you stand out against the colourful backdrop. Sharing these details allows us to help you choose a gown that fits perfectly into the bigger aesthetic of your wedding day.
How many guests will you have?
We also like to ask about the size of your wedding. Is it a small, intimate gathering, or a large event with lots of friends and family? The scale of your wedding can influence the style of dress that feels appropriate. For a small, personal ceremony, you might prefer something simpler and more understated, while a grand, formal celebration might call for a more dramatic, eye-catching gown.
This also applies to your bridal entourage during your appointment. Whether you’re bringing your closest family member or the whole bridal party, knowing how many people will be with you helps us prepare for your appointment and make sure everyone has a fantastic experience.
What do you love about yourself?
One of the most important questions we’ll ask is, “What do you love about yourself?” This is your moment to shine, and we want to know which parts of your body you feel most confident about! Whether it’s your boobs, waist, or legs, we’ll help you find a dress that highlights your favourite features and makes you feel stunning.
Similarly, if there are certain areas you’d prefer to minimise or cover up, let us know. We’re here to make sure you feel comfortable and beautiful in your dress, so if you prefer not to show certain areas — like avoiding a low neckline or covering a tattoo — these are things we’ll take into account as we guide you through the selection process.
What’s your budget?
It’s important for us to know your budget before we start trying on dresses. Wedding dresses can vary significantly in price, and knowing your budget helps us show you options that are within your range, so you don’t fall in love with a dress that’s out of reach.
At Lily’s Boutique, we have beautiful gowns to suit a wide range of budgets. Whether you’re looking for a luxury designer piece or something more affordable, we’ll ensure you have plenty of stunning options to choose from without any added stress.
What’s your timeline?
We always ask about your wedding timeline, because the time frame can affect your options. Some of our dresses can take longer to arrive, and you’ll need to allow additional time for alterations, particularly if you’d like some extensive work or customs designs done on your dress. If your wedding date is fast approaching, don’t worry — there are options like off-the-rail, but it’s good to know your timeline early so we can help you find the perfect solution.
Do you have accessories already?
Finally, we’ll ask if you’ve already chosen any accessories. Sometimes brides come to us with a special item, like a pair of heirloom earrings or a family veil, that they want to incorporate into their look. If you already have any accessories in mind — whether it’s jewellery, shoes, or a veil — let us know! We’ll help you find a dress that complements those pieces perfectly.
If you have shoes picked out, it’s a good idea to wear these to your appointment too. This will help you and us to judge how long your dress is, which is particularly important when it comes to alterations. We don’t want you tripping over your gown or unhappy that it’s hovering at an awkward length!
If you haven’t thought about accessories yet though, don’t panic. We can help you explore options during your appointment to create your dreamy bridal look.
Book your appointment today! We’d love to play a part in your special day.
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